love

Love is the feeling that comes when you meet the right person. It will develop a relationship normally between a guy and a girl. Consciously or unconsciously, people believe love is a sensation that magically spontaneously generates when Mr. or Ms. Right appears. And just as easily, it can spontaneously degenerate when the magic dissapeared. You fall in love, and you can fall out of it.

Then, love is active. You can create it. If you think love comes from appreciating goodness, just focus on the good in an other person. If you can do this easily, you'll get in love easily. Love also can come with decision. You can choose either you want to love that person or not. Sometimes we don't realize the love comes because love is unpredictable. But not all love cn be expressed. Somewhile, we must keep our feelings to maintain a relationship between two or more sides.

In love, we must show our love by giving to our partner. Giving is not like " Honey, today is our anniversary. So, take this jewelry as the present.". Giving that I meant requires 4 elements. The first is care which you demonstrating active concern to your partner life and growth. The second is responsibility which is you're responding yours' expressed and unexpressed needs. The third is respect. It is the ability to see the person aware to their partners' individuality. And the last one is wanting your partner to grow and unfold as he or she is. So, cherish the love.